(explaining this to someone who thinks dubious consent is hot) so the reason why it is abusive is that the main character withholds important information from his wife that would have made her not choose to spend her life with him and also this entire game is in his mind. This game additionally has the feature of constantly abusing his wife as well as giving her no ability to consent or understand what is happening in the relationship..... IT'S NOT HOT PLEASE STOP SAYING ITS HOT