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okay serious review. I absolutely ADORE this game. I'm genuinely so glad I got to play it and got access to the dlcs bc of the official acc <3. my story with cove is so important to me. the theme of acceptance in the game just tops it all off

• Um dos meus jogos favoritos da VIDA! Acho fascinante como tudo nele funciona tão bem.

• Jogar esse jogo é como receber um abraço quentinho, fico feliz só de pensar nele enquanto escrevo essa resenha. Os personagens são EXTREMAMENTE cativantes, a história se desenrola de uma maneira super orgânica, a trilha sonora é impecável (principalmente a música dos créditos) e o estilo de arte é uma fofura.

• Acho incrível como ele consegue capturar períodos específicos da vida de alguém de um jeito tão orgânico. Enquanto jogava e via os personagens crescendo, me identificava com muitas coisas e sentia nostalgia de outras.

• Briga de rotas:
1 - Cove (óbvio)
2 - Derek
3 - Baxter

• Quase me matei jogando a DLC de casamento amo esse jogo de merda e sempre irei amar.


Honestly I dont want to hate on a game I played for free on an itch.io spree but I did not like this, maybe I'm just too old though! I respect what it's going for so I'm giving it 3 stars. just did not like cove LOL. That being said i played the demo for the sequel and thought it was ridiculously good, i'm really excited for it :)

c’est un des plus beaux visual novels auxquels j’ai pu jouer et j’en ai fait énormément. j’ai l’impression d’avoir vécu une autre vie, d’être retournée en enfance et d’avoir pu apprendre ce que c’était le véritable amour. les sprites sont beaux, les dialogues sont magnifiques (j’ai fait tous les dlc + content bonus) et ça se sent que plein d’amour et pleins de sentiments ont été mis dans le jeu, ça transpire l’émotion et ça m’a énormément prise et transportée. j’ai l’impression d’avoir grandit avec les personnages, tous aussi bienveillants et incroyables les uns que les autres! c’est tout plein d’ouverture d’esprit et d’inclusivité et pitié c’était juste incroyable!! merci à ce jeu d’exister et de m’avoir fait vivre tout ça. cove holden mais vraiment quel homme…. 🥺🥺🫶🏼 le childhood friends to lovers remonte FORT haut dans ma liste après ça !!

Perhaps the only visual novel you need. Came at the perfect time to kick my ass into transitioning.


A heartwaming and easy going visual novel, I really enjoyed it.

This was basically the first VN I ever played, and I found it to be very charming. The games prioritizes your freedom to have any kind of experience you want, without having to worry about it.

Cove will fall in love with you, regardless. So you don't need to stress about choosing the "right" answers. You may also customize your appearance, gender and pronoums to your liking.

The game also has an interesting system where Cove's personality is not set in stone. As you grow up together, some of your personality will change Cove as well, in his ways of thinking, acting and also his appeareance. As someone who is kind of sensitive and easily absorbs some traits from the people I like, this feature made me emphatize a lot with the character.

Of course, if you want your Cove to be a certain way without worring you'll change him into someone you're not too fond of, you can customize his appearance and personality mannually too.

This games tries it best to be welcoming to as many people it can, and brings you an endearing experience you can customize to best fit whatever you desire.

I'm look forward to buying all the DLC and trying new paths in this game in the future.

one of the better vns out there! cove i will always love you forever

A chill, fun VN that hit me at the exact right time. Honestly seems like it could be a lot of fun replaying, if I was capable of replaying games

COVE I LOVE YOU COVE I LOVE YOU COVEEEEEEEE

The game is so well written, I was quickly caught by the story. It's been a while since I played such a good otome, and I'm really happy I found it. The DLC added so much and it was worth every minutes I spent on it.

3.5/5 Stars
The art style is cute and it has alot of character customization! Beautiful round characters with a solid plot. Plus super inclusive and has lgbt characters! Gender/sexuality/romantic attraction is all customizable which is what gives it the extra half heart, so very nice. Only downside is little endings

Absolutely love it. I'm usually not a visual novel player, hell this is the only one I've played and there's a good reason for that: because I fucking LOVE Cove. Played this through about 3 or 4 times, with the DLC too, and its just perfect.

Possibly one of the best visual novel games. It actually feels like you are playing a game and can choose where the story goes. In terms of customization, every other VN game feels pathetic in comparison. It is not a glorified storybook, but an actual story that you can interact with and influence. It feels like YOU are an actual character, instead of inhabiting the body of a predetermined character.
A must-experience for any VN fan, especially my fellow queers!

Literally one of the best visual novel/dating games I have ever and probably will ever play.

This game literally changed my life fr. This is the pinnacle of VN mechanics

This was cute! Fluffy romance is my weakness when done well and I enjoyed how wholesome this was a lot. The characters in general I ended up caring quite a bit for, especially loved Cove and how personalized you can make your relationship with him throughout

Broke me with pure sweetness and heart, actually made me cry. Genuinely worth trying for anyone, this might be what you need in your life to help you through it all.

Above and Beyond Sweetness

In 2022, a friend of mine recommended me Our Life: Beginning’s and Always, his reasoning being that since I am bisexual that this could be something I might end up liking. Initially, I was kind of hesitant to give the game a try. From my outside perspective looking in, it’s a romance otome visual novel, which it’s already hard to get me hooked into visual novels like that. However, it’s free, so I swallowed my pride and started a playthrough.
Almost immediately, I was sucked into a sugary sweet slice of California in Sunset Bird, and before long, I finished an entire “life” of the game, then went back, and did another. What I found was one of the most comforting, fluffy games that shuts out the outside world and allows a moment of reprieve.
The premise of the game starts with your main character at the age of six, who finds a man moving in next door. The man wants the main character to take $20 to befriend his son. Take the money or not, you’ll encounter the star of the show, Cove Holden. Fairly quickly you befriend him and will begin the first “step” of the game, the summer of childhood.
Each step of life is one summer in one of three (or four if you buy the DLC) parts of life; childhood, adolescence, and adulthood. In each step, you are given select activities to experience, each one putting you in a different situation with either family or friends, but most will focus on your relationship with Cove.
Each event has different options for you to take, and while some of them are inconsequential, a lot do have some impact on how Cove will act or what you do will alter events later in the game. While I could argue that the selections do not always allow for every type of response, and some of those missing would be more reasonable than what you’re presented, I quite enjoyed playing and seeing what I could do with each option.
But what I saw throughout each step of the game, and what made me love it more, is how nice the people around you are. Whether it be your character’s sister, your two moms, Cove’s father Cliff, or any of the friends you make in each step, each are well written and feel human, even if the dramatic and gloomy points of the game or their characters never linger long. The town of Sunset Bird is one I came to love, because of the likable characters, and the pleasant vibes it brought in every step of the game.
Cove is the star of the show, and the game goes out of its way to make sure that you will grow to like him. His inner struggles are very human and gives reason to care about him. Throughout each step, the game will nudge the player towards a (optional but c’mon) romance with Cove, and it’s super sweet.
I’m trying not to say too much about all the details of the game specifically, as I think just playing it and finding out each thing for yourself is the best way to experience Our Life: Beginnings and Always. However, throughout my experience at least, I found myself emotionally invested with every character, and Cove himself has shot up to one of my favorite characters.
What I do want to highlight is the game’s writing. I touched up on it in the options you as the player are given, but it goes further than that. GB Patch’s writing for each stage of life is not only good, but really believable. At least in my time with the game, I never read a piece of dialogue and said, “a six-year-old wouldn’t say something like that” or “they’re teenagers, this is not how they act”. It’s all very well written, and that writing is a strong reason I kept playing.
But more importantly, and absolutely my favorite part, is the handling of queer writing. Our Life: Beginning and Always embraces LGBT+ themes very openly. For starters, you can make your player character whatever you want them to be, and just like any actual queer person, have their feelings and own self change in each step of the game. Want to start off as a male, but have your character discover to embrace being transgender or non-binary? Then it’s possible, and incorporated with actual care.
Even further, a lot of the cast in the game is also queer. The player character has two mothers, who married and adopted both the main character and your sister. Not once did I think this was a strange decision, it just felt extremely natural here. You’ll also have an openly transgender character as one of your friends. With DLC, two additional characters can be romanced in a same-sex relationship as Cove.
In a lot of games, I never really find myself satisfied with how queerness is portrayed. Every so often we’ll get a game that doesn’t shy away from queer themes, but also embraces them either upfront or subtlety. However, there are also plenty of shallow duds, which either play it safe, use it as a bad joke, or do not even try to make it feel “normal”, but rather a gimmick tacked on for brownie points. Here though, GB Patch has put care into making a game that’s not only inclusive, but well-meaning and comfortable. That’s the word, it’s comforting.
With how much I hear of gay jokes or flat out homophobia, it doesn’t really bother me, but rather annoys me. How do we still live in a time where someone's life and way of life can be so despised? Why did I have to spend so much of it ashamed of who I was, and how others around me would feel about my sexuality? It's lame, and this game knows that those feelings are lame. So, it’s nice that Our Life: Beginnings and Always just feels like a nice warm hug away from the nonsense and venom people today can spew.
Would I recommend Our Life: Beginnings and Always to everyone? Absolutely not. Unless you’re queer, really into slice of life and/or visual novels that just keep it sweet, this really isn’t going to do it for you. But what I found is one of my favorite games, a game so good and so sweet that it being free is a damn crime. A game that is comfort for when I want to step away from the negativity of the world or the negativity of myself and want to have a smile plastered on my face. I would go to say it’s one of the best visual novels out there, with the likes of VA-11 Hall-A. But above all else, one of the best examples of queer writing out there in video games. To me, that makes it something special. I've wanted to write about this game for so long, and it felt good to do so.
Grand Theft Auto VI and Monster Hunter Wilds will be on their knees when the sequel, Our Life: Now and Forever, drops in 2025. Truly, it will be game of the year, I just know it.

sooooo sweet and beautiful, the emotional expression at different ages is really well written and cove is a gorgeous crybaby angel. i love that the characterisation responds to your choices, you literally grow alongside each other. will return to this whenever i need to remember that love is real.

this was so wholesome and sweet 10/10

Favorite VN, replayed a few times. Really well made

My favorite game ever, bought every dlc and have an unholy amount of hours.

Not the typical game I'd go far, but honestly a quite comforting and cozy game.

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it's cute. it's like a "life on easy mode" simulator. no crime, no problems, everybody coddles you. it's great.

Some of these little stories though, man. I can't relate. They're written assuming a baseline level of anxiety neither my character or I (or even cove) exhibit . The characters will draw attention to my character not having any visible anxiety, but because it's written assuming they do, all the events play out the same.

There was one set during when your character is 19 where cove gets upset on your behalf because your parents play a little trick to give you independence. They leave you and stop answering their texts, basically. If I were in that position, I'd shrug my shoulders after ten minutes, assume they got caught up talking to an acquaintance, and shoot them a text saying "gonna walk around, meet up with you at insert landmark here later". the idea of it being some goofy trick wouldn't even cross my mind.

This kid though, he acts like your moms abandoned you by the side of a road at 2am in the dead of winter instead of a yuppie farmer's market in broad daylight. He even mentions that my character has no history of anxiety issues. The parents(and sister) act contrite, as if they've greatly wronged you. I guess it's refreshing to see a character's feelings be validated, but because I thought he was being a dipshit it was like... man. You don't even have anxiety, what are you upset about. Your dad doesn't even expect you to move out.

To be honest, I thought Cove was kind of a dipshit in general. half the time it feels like he's just an exact mirror of what i say my character likes.

Baxter and Derek were more likable little buddies. In fact, Derek was great. Taking a bus alone at 13? Awesome, finally, someone with a relatable background.

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This game is my happy place. Every summer I boot it up there's a million new things to discover or another cute thing to put me into a frenzy. Making me care about every character in a game where Cove is the lead is a massive accomplishment. The art and sound of this game is so cute and welcoming, and the writing for both the causal interactions and the intimate ones are just chefs kiss.

There is no other game like this one and my hat goes off to the entire development team, you truly made something unforgettable. I know I wont.


ermmm i like men sometimes

No início, julguei o jogo por puro preconceito - mesmo amando dating games -, mas quando eu decidi dar uma segunda chance, fiquei completamente obcecado! Não tem como não amar o Cove, mesmo ele sendo infantil algumas vezes. E digo com orgulho que comprei todas as DLCs. Essa visual novel simplesmente dá um sentimento quentinho no peito. A história é muito bem construída que, quando termina, você fica com um gostinho de 'quero mais!' e uma certa nostalgia do início do jogo. Ver o MC e o Cove crescerem e, aos poucos, se entenderem é lindo e gratificante.