it's worth noting that tomb raider isn't really a 3d platformer in a traditional sense. it's much more in line with like, a 3d realization of the original prince of persia. so if that kind of methodical, more realism driven kind of puzzle platforming/problem solving doesn't appeal, then this likely won't ever change your mind

if you get the swing of the controls and the mindset the game's built around, i think you'll find the grid-based level design and movement to be pretty intuitive